Monday, June 22, 2009

Our relationship,in all honesty


1. What are your middle names?
I don't have one,he has 2 middle names,Christoffel Johannes.Hilarious.

2. How long have you been together?
In November,it will be 4 years (2 years of friends with benefits,and 2 years of grown up relationship).

3. How long did you know each other before you started dating?
About 8 years.

4. Who asked whom out?

He flirted with me a lot,and eventually made the first move.

5. How old are each of you?
He is turning 31 in November,and I'm 26.

6. Whose siblings do you see the most?
We see my one sister more.

7. Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple?
Clearing all debt and just making our salaries work every month.

8. Did you go to the same school?
No,but his one sister was in the same school as me.

9. Who is smarter?
We are quite equal,but if I'm being completely honest,I think he's a little bit smarter than me.But I will never admit that to him.

10. Who is the most sensitive?
Definitely me.There are VERY few things that can upset my boyfriend.

11. Where do you eat out most as a couple?
We really don't eat out that much,maybe once or twice a year.But when we do,we get pizza from a local restaurant.That pizza is so fattening and delicious,I think just looking at it can stop your heart from beating.

12. Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple?
Not very far at all.LOL.But we really want to do a cross-country road trip in a year or 2 (like I mentioned earlier,money is a problem right now).

13. Who has the craziest exes?
Definitely him.He had some really weird chicks that he went out with,from a deaf nymphomaniac,to a single mother of 3 sugarmommy.Also a girl,who after he told her to let him go,because if he was meant to be with her,he would surely return to her,told him that she would never let him go.So yeah,like I said,very weird.

14. Who has the worst temper?
Mine is very immediate,I don't bottle things up.But JC can have quite a temper as well,but I guess I have the worst temper of us two.

15. Who does the cooking?
I do most of the cooking,he'll maybe do it once a week or so,but he only does 1 of 2 meals,so I tend to not let him cook very often,although he does those 2 dishes VERY well.

16. Who is the neat-freak?
Neither one of us is particularly neatfreakish,but after a while,if the apartment gets to be too much of a mess,I will just start cleaning,and then freak out if someone makes a mess within 2 days of me cleaning the apartment.JC isn't so bothered by it.It's like he doesn't even notice dirt.

17. Who is more stubborn?
JC would say it's me,but it's definitely him!If he has decided not to do something,or to do something,he will not budge from his decision,no matter how stupid/irresponsible/irritating a decision it might be.He is a total ass in that regard (come on,I mean like a donkey!)

18. Who hogs the bed?
Me,and the covers as well.Not that I mean to,it just happens.

19. Who wakes up earlier?
I'm usually up earlier on the weekends,because he always goes to bed later.But in the week we get up together,because we start work at the same time.

20. Where was your first date?
At this really stupid club that we had in town.

21. Who is more jealous?
Oh definitely me.I get jealous over the most stupid stuff.But I have always felt that jealousy is a sign of love,and I wouldn't mind it if my boyfriend was a little more jealous of me.But nothing phases him,at all.

22. How long did it take to get serious?
About 2 years.Everyone told me to just leave him,and get on with my life,but I had faith in him,and knew that this was the guy for me.So I stuck it out,and am now really glad I did.He is the best thing in my life.

23. Who eats more?
Uhm,definitely me.My boyfriend is one of those people who just isn't bothered with food.He sometimes actually forgets to eat.He literally only ever eats if he's really hungry.Otherwise,he just never eats.I,on the other hand,will eat anything and everything that isn't nailed down.

24. Who's better with the computer?
Me,since JC never works on a computer,ever.He has a very physical job,that has nothing to do with computers,so he has no reason to use one.

25. Who drives when you are together?
I don't drive (I really suck at it) so he always drives.

5 Comments:

Leetid said...

Good questions!

I think the hardest part of my relationship is the money as we have debt and doesn't really leave you with much money when they are paid for the month.

cybeel said...

Thank you for sharing these answers with us. So nice to know you more! I belive "relations" are like real diamonds, so hard to find a real one! So i wish happiness to three of you. (Don't think i'd ever forget Maya :P)

drollgirl said...

tee hee!! it is fun to learn about couples! i love all the weird quirks that every relationship has (including mine!)!

Awesome Sara said...

my heart is going to burst bc you 2 are so freaking adorbs!!!!

creative kerfuffle said...

you are hawt and you two are a cute couple : ) i love getting to know you better! i am also more jealous than the hubs, better on the computer, we're about equally smart though we each have our own areas of "expertise", i'm like you w/ the anger it's quick and he seethes.

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